
Flogging is a form of whipping. A flogger may
range from a few tails to several tails. My favorite flogger was
a 52-tail elk skin with dog ears. I view myself as a good
flogger and not a master flogger, for in my perspective no one
truly masters everything within a certain realm. Just as
anything in life, one must be willing to commit to learning the
principles of flogging long before they can understand what and
how to flog…
When one first begins to flog, become familiar with the tool of
which of choice. I suggest starting with a lighter weight as
opposed to a medium or heavy weight flogger. A medium or heavy
flogger is difficult to control until you grasp the swing. For
me it is a combination of both wrist and forearm, however more
wrist action.
A figure 8 is the motion to strive for, maintaining a tight figure 8. If your swing is loose the tails shall fly wildly which will result in wrapping and make your partner doubt if they truly desire you to continue. The tighter your motion, the closer the tails shall remain and as time goes on, the more enjoyment can be had. Start with what ever your dominant hand is so not to gain any bad habits and begin slowly. Don't worry about trying to do what you saw the person do the other night. Don't worry about trying to keep rhythm with the music or trying to Florentine. Remember you are only beginning. This shall all come in time…
There does one know safe areas to hit? As a
general rule the shoulders to the bra strap, the butt, legs,
breasts. I know some people are thinking what the hell am I
thinking!!! These are safe areas, however one must be able to
soften the blow in specific areas, such as the breasts. Yes they
stand up and say "here we are, " but damage can be done to them
with a severe strike. Stay away from areas where organs may be
involved, kidneys, the heart, stomach and eyes.
I didn't mention the crotch area however if you
go here, please treat it like the breast area. Personally,
watching a submissive quiver knowing her crotch can be a target
at any moment brings me much pleasure and enjoyment, as well as
a good mind fuck. Also stay away from joints. I know it sounds
like I've taken every area of the body away where a flogger can
land, however I assure you I haven't, but I'll leave that up to
your own imagination. Besides learning is quite a treasure.
So how does one know where they are striking
their potential partner? I suggest practicing in mid air in
order to get the feel of the flogger, making sure your wrist is
in a tight figure 8. After that, there are many ways
of knowing where your blows may land. Place a pillow in a chair,
a sheet or blanket upon the wall. If you choose either of these
it will help if you place flour on the outside of your targeted
area. This allows you to see where your strikes actually land.
Are you wrapping over the shoulder…if so, stand back a little.
Are you wrapping around the chest ( which can be stimulating but
save that for later on )……… if so then you need to tighten your
figure 8. My preference is tacking a t-shirt to the wall. This
gives me the perfect visual of safe areas to strike.
Striking styles….. Basically each strike is the
same, but with a different style. As mentioned above a figure 8
is the swinging motion you want. From there you shall be amazed
at the different styles you can come up with. I do recommend in
the beginning you concentrate on the middle to the tips of the
tails making contacting with the body. There is the common
overhand swing that can be used on the entire body. I enjoy what
I call a good upper cut swing when I work the butt, comparable
to serving when playing racquetball. There is the whirlwind
swing, which is comparable to a helicopter blade rotating. This
too can be used over the entire body and applied with a light
teasing touch, a stingy snap from the end of the tails or the
body of the tails. I like using a baseball swing as I begin
finishing things up. ONLY use this swing on the butt as it can
cause permanent damage if landing in the wrong area. As you
become more proficient with your skills, you shall be able to
switch hands in mid swing and that allows you to enjoy the
festivities that much longer.
Which flogger is best for what situation? It is like sex. Start
out slowly, gradually increasing the intensity of the blows.
Begin by using a soft skin flogger… deer or rabbit. Elk is a
good medium flogger to use once the skin is prepared, then
possibly a heavy moose. I enjoy finishing things with my bison.
It is thick, heavy and makes your partner think what the hell is
coming next.
Just like any other tool never, I repeat never
use a flogger upon another until you have used it upon yourself.
Yes the feeling will be different, but you will know how it
feels upon the flesh. Whenever I get a new flogger, I always
remove my shirt and give my back 5 healthy strokes from each
arm.
When I did this with my bison, I learned very quickly the
potential danger this tool harbors. When changing floggers as
the scene progresses you must remember the next flogger is
heavier, so you can't start with it with the same intensity as
the one you just finished with. In other words, if I move from
deer to elk, I'm not going to have as heavy an impact to begin
with as I did when I finished with the deer skin. I know that
sounds a little weird, but read it again if you don't
understand. If you upgrade during play you must downgrade the
impact until your partner has been able to adapt to the
intensity of the new flogger. After that you may increase the
intensity back to the point and past where it was before you
changed floggers. …
I mentioned preparing the skin. This correlates
to the type of flogger one begins with. Using a light skin
flogger, work the area or areas in which you are going to enjoy.
Start lightly and gradually build the force. As the skin
reddens, it becomes prepared. The reddening is blood rising to
thesurface, which will allow a longer session and prevent
bruising in most cases. An area where bone is closer to the
skin, will be ready before a fatty area, such as the butt…
Don't be afraid to fail, for you will. However the only true failure is not trying. If you don't make a mistake, you never tried; if you never try, nothing ever gets done. I still wrap at times and you shall as well, however the more you flog, the deeper your confidence becomes. Just make sure you have confidence with your sheet or shirt before you put a naked body before you. Remember they are putting their body in your safety and always follow the credo of SSC…
Touch the submissive, love the submissive, honor
the submissive: her mind, her body, her trust, her soul; Rest
your spirit in her solitary places.
Sir Gemini